Pastor Bisi Adewale is an International Conference Speaker on Marriage, Parenting & Family Life. He has written over 100 books. He is the President of Family Booster Ministries International which was established in 1999 to revive, remould, restore and rejuvenate all dilapidated homes, to bring sons and daughter together in holy matrimony, and to raise people for end-time revival using home units.
This slim-built man of God is an Accountant by training, called and trained as a Family Minister. He is married to Pastor Yomi, an ICAN Fellow and both recently floated a new initiative online called Familylifers.com.
Pastor Bisi Adewale recently wrote a book titled 100 Foolish Things Ladies Must Never Do In Life & Relationship. The book is the result of his 21 years of his research amongst Girls. It is about the foolish things young girls usually do that have destroyed many of them in history. In it he wrote about 71 Red Flags in a Relationship, 40 Indicators of Bad Foundation in Marriage, 14 Things To Do In Dating and Courtship and many more. According to Pastor Bisi Adewale.
Many ladies have asked themselves where they went wrong or wondered why their relationship that seemed perfect in the beginning failed”.
“This, sometimes, can become a burden in the heart, especially when it becomes a reoccurring experience.”
“Lots of ladies are now in their 30s and 40s but not yet married. Many of them blame the devil for their predicament. Some even trace their plight to generational curses, evil patterns, witchcraft and many diabolical powers.”
“Battles fought by many married women today started because of their foolish attitudes when they were young and single.”
“A lady may be nice, beautiful, highly educated and have good intentions. However, she may have these unpleasant things happening to her. She may be unable to keep a good relationship or make the relationship end up in marriage. She may have broken relationships and heartaches.”
“This has left many ladies to ask why. Most of these experiences are as a result of the mistakes they made in life and relationships.”
“In this book, we are going to look at 101 of these foolish things. I will be practical and down-to-earth about these issues. Many of these mistakes will be illustrated with real-life stories from my more than 20 years of counseling experience and work among youths and singles. You will do well to read them carefully and make corrections as it affects you. Don’t explain it away; don’t be defensive. Look, deal with yourself, make amends and help other ladies to get this book”.
Chapter One treats- Failure To Have Vision And Plans For Your Life Chapter Two deals with Failure To Discover Their Purpose On Earth, Chapter Three – Failure To Develop Themselves, Chapter Four Looking For A Man Complete You Chapter Five – Abandoning God Because Of A Man – Chapter Six – Ignoring Divine Direction For Human Persuasion Chapter Seven Not Giving Their Lives To Christ Chapter Eight Not Taking Spiritual Things Serious Chapter Nine Not Taking Spiritual Warfare Seriously Chapter Ten Being Stupid In Love Chapter Eleven – Laying Bad Foundation For Her Future – Chapter Twelve Loving Men Who Do Not Love You Chapter Thirteen – Getting Married For Wrong Reasons Chapter Fourteen Failure To Reinvent Themselves Chapter Fifteen – Failure To Upgrade.
Chapter Sixteen – Making The First Move In A Relationship Chapter Seventeen Saying I Love You Before He Says So Chapter Eighteen Getting Into Sex Before Marriage – Chapter Nineteen Opening Up Too Soon Chapter Twenty – Being Too Raw When Opening Up Chapter Twenty-One Opening Up Too Late – Chapter Twenty-Two Failure to Have Vision and Plans For Your Life – Chapter Twenty-Three Becoming A Restaurant For Sex Chapter Twenty-Four Becoming Too Desperate For Marriage Chapter Twenty-Five Using The Power Of Seduction To Get A Man – Chapter Twenty-Six – Using The Power Of Sex To Get A Man Chapter Twenty-Seven Sending Nude Pictures To Men Chapter Twenty-Eight Hating Domestic Work Chapter Twenty-Nine Maternity Tie Down Chapter Thirty Mummy’s Boy Palava Chapter Thirty-One Thinking She Has Gone Too Far When It Is Only Too Far Into Error Chapter Thirty-Two Parents-Level Madness Chapter Thirty-Three Dating Without Courting
Chapter Thirty-Four Laying The Wrong Foundation For Marriage Chapter Thirty-Five Dressing Sexy To Attract Men – Chapter Thirty-Six Abandoning People That Matter Because Of A Man Chapter Thirty-Seven – Going Into Marriage With No Knowledge, Of The Man’s Family And Background Chapter Thirty-Eight Copying Your Mum’s Bad Character Chapter Thirty-Nine Dating Married Men – Chapter Forty Double-Rabbit Game Chapter Forty-One Canopy Relationship Chapter Forty Two Low Self-Esteem Chapter Forty Three Guys Best-Friend Syndrome Chapter Forty Four Nicodemus Relationship Syndrome – Chapter Forty-Five Baby Mama Syndrome Chapter Forty Six Black And White Relationship Syndrome Chapter Forty Seven – Red Flags You Must Watch Out, For In A Relationship Chapter Forty-Eight Visibility Error Chapter Forty Nine Wrong Social Media Usage – Chapter Fifty – Aristo Stupidity Chapter Fifty One Inter-Tribal Marriage, Without Inter-Tribal Mindset
Chapter Fifty Two Being Careless With Sex Chapter Fifty Three Bounce Back Relationship Chapter Fifty Four Monster-Lover Connection Chapter Fifty Five – Sowing Evil Seeds To The Future Chapter Fifty Six Nursing Mother Relationship – Chapter Fifty-Seven Marrying A Pastor Without Preparing For It – Chapter Fifty-Eight Getting Wedding-Crazy But Marriage-Careless Chapter Fifty Nine Offering Sex Without Offering Sense Chapter Sixty Feminist Madness Chapter Sixty One Love Of Money Chapter Sixty Two Basing Marital Decision On Material Things – Chapter Sixty Three Fore-Father’s Relationship Chapter Sixty Four Blaming Herself For The Man’s Stupidity Chapter Sixty Five Not Praying And Thinking Through Before, Marrying A Man Chapter Sixty Six Marrying A Divorcee Chapter Sixty Seven Self Question Errors Chapter Sixty Eight Money Bag Mentality Chapter Sixty Nine Aborting Unborn Babies
Chapter Seventy Looking For Their Fathers In A Man Chapter Seventy One – Trial Marriage Chapter Seventy Two Campus Lovers Chapter Seventy Three Extra Tyre Syndrome Chapter Seventy Four Associational Error Chapter Seventy Five Pregnancy Before Wedding Chapter Seventy Six – Sexual Perversion – Chapter Seventy-Seven – Begging A Man Unwilling To Stay – Chapter Seventy-Eight – Genotypes – Chapter Seventy-Nine – Marrying A Man Because Of His Riches, And Connection – Chapter Eighty – Not Preparing Adequately For Marriage – Chapter Eighty-One – Developing Bad Attitudes And Characters – Chapter Eighty-Two – Getting Married To A Man’s Strengths, Without Knowing His Weaknesses – Chapter Eighty-Three – Not Knowing The Differences Between, Good And Bad Foundation For Marriage Chapter Eighty Four – Abandoning Career And Education For A Man – Chapter Eighty-Five Fighting Potential In-Laws Chapter Eighty-Six Failure To Be A Woman Of Virtue And Good Value.
Chapter Eighty-Seven Competing With Other Ladies For, The Love Of A Man – Chapter Eighty-Eight – Stupidity Of Lesbianism -Chapter Eighty-Nine – Failure To Destroy Evil Foundations – Chapter Ninety – Missionary Relationship- Chapter Ninety-One – Not Doing The Right Things To Attract Godly Men – Chapter Ninety Two – Not Surrendering Their Lives To Christ Early – Chapter Ninety-Three – Not Having A Mentor – Chapter Ninety Four – Corner Kick Relationship – Chapter Ninety-Five – Tough-Nut Syndrome Chapter Ninety Six Abusing Toasters, Chapter Ninety Seven Extravagant Wedding By All Means, Chapter Ninety Eight – Choosing A Life Partner For The Wrong Reasons, Chapter Ninety Nine – Failure To Deal With Wrong Things, About Life And Relationship, Chapter One Hundred, Seeing Spiritual Matters As Old-Fashioned, Chapter One Hundred And One – Marrying Someone That Does Not Love You.