Hello Doctor Love, please help me out. I met a guy at a show, we are both artistes. Soon, we became lovers and I told him I have a son at the early stage but that he does not stay with me. We have been together for like one year now. One weekend, I traveled with my son. We came back and I decided to show him my son that night. However, he went outside and sent me a text that he does not want me to bring my son to his house. I left in anger because my son means the world to me. Until after one week, he did not call me. The day he called, I went to his house and he gave me my things that were in his house and said the relationship was over. I am in love with this guy but I do not know if he still loves me. I am Pinky, what do I do? 08090868…
Oh, Pinky, I don’t like this o! Why do you want me to be upset with you? How can you be asking me what to do when someone you claim you love suddenly became a different man at the very sight of your son, your own flesh and blood? It is obvious that the guy does not love you. And if indeed he has some semblance of love for you, you can be sure its not enough for him to love your son like he loves you. The young man couldn’t stand the sight of your son and so didn’t even hesitate to call off the relationship, yet you say you don’t know if he still loves you. What more proof do you need to know that the guy does not give a hoot about you? Is it until he embarrasses you openly that you know this is not the man for you? Any man who truly loves you will equally love your child, simple!
Sir, please, I need your help. My guy says he cannot marry me because of tribal differences and when I call him he switches off his phone saying he was tired. He still says he loves me. Should I leave him? -081396191…
Sweetheart, what do you want me to say? This guy has been honest enough to tell you his mind. Now, whether indeed he’s reluctant to make you the mother of his unborn children because of tribal differences he claims exists between both of you or he simply thinks you don’t fit into the picture of his future wife, is another case altogether. But the fact remains that ‘bros’ doesn’t see you as being a part of his future plans and the earlier you come to terms with the bitter fact, the better for you. Leave the guy alone and be at least thankful; that he was kind enough to tell you the plain truth. Some other guys would’ve kept leading you on until they were ready to dump you at the last minute, Just when your hopes have been raised into thinking you had a future together. My dear, abeg, close his chapter, it’s time for you to make a fresh start.
Hi Mr. Wale, I broke up with my boyfriend because he wants us to have sex and I do not think it is the right time, but I love him so much. Please, tell me what to do….070328305…
My dear, there is nothing to tell you other than the fact that you have done the right thing. I am sure you deliberately did not mention your age so that I won’t be very firm with you, but the thing is that, once you’re not sure about this thing called sex, don’t dabble into it. If you really love this guy like you say, then you may take the pains to talk to him and try to get him to see things from your perspective. He should be willing to wait for you as long as he’s sure no one is having access to his prized possession behind his back. Let him know the reasons why you want to keep sex out of the picture for now and assure him you’re all his only if he can give you a little more time. He should be able to respect your decision and reach some sort of compromise with you. And if he’s not disposed to any of this, then give him the space he wants for the time being, he might come around later.
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