Hello, Dr. Love, my name is Regina and I\u2019m 28 years old. Currently, I\u2019m in a relationship and by November our relationship will be one year old. But we have been on and off and we only just recently settled a misunderstanding and since then, my guy hardly calls me. I have tried complaining but he says I should be patient with him. Each time I ask for financial assistance he will tell me to calm down, that he\u2019s planning something. So, my fear is that I don\u2019t know if the guy still loves me or he\u2019s just playing games with me. He is not supportive at all. He only remembers me when he needs sex and he says that\u2019s what I should be doing in order to keep the relationship. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
REGINA, I think I need to be\nvery blunt with you. At 28, the guy you\u2019re dating now isn\u2019t who you should be\nwith. Except if my thinking and your expectations of a relationship are not\nquite the same. I would expect that, at your age, you would be looking for a\nman you can settle down with and call your own. But if you\u2019re dating this guy\nonly because you want his money (because you also mentioned that he doesn\u2019t\ngive you money) then that\u2019s alright, But as far as being serious enough to\nmarry you is concerned, I don\u2019t think he\u2019s interested in that. When a man is\nexcited about a woman, he would look forward to hearing her voice, even if it\u2019s\nonce or twice in a day or two if he\u2019s the very busy type. But not to call at\nall is totally unacceptable. You sound to me like a reserved type of lady.\nDon\u2019t let this guy take you on a wild goose chase. Sit him down and let him\nknow you\u2019re fed up with his drama. Tell him you\u2019re no longer interested in\nbeing his sex companion, he should come clean with you and let you know where\nyou stand in his life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hi, Mr. Wale, please, the\nproblem I have with my girl is that she\u2019s not good in bed. After three rounds,\nshe complains she\u2019s exhausted and would never let me have another round with\nher. Please, help me, what can I do? Thanks, from Capo de Ist\u2026\u2026.070347088\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bros Capo de Ist (what sort of name is that?) believe me, you\u2019re an incredible character! You say you need help? Sure, I will help you, and I can tell you for free that what you need is deliverance, period! Haba! How can you say your girlfriend isn\u2019t good enough simply because she can\u2019t give you beyond three rounds of sex! Do you want to kill her? Seriously, I\u2019m worried about your real intentions and plans for this girl. Most guys who come up with this sort of complaint you\u2019re making right now usually end up using and dumping girls in your quest for a woman that can match your high libido. I am sorry for the girl you\u2019re presently dating, I can bet my bottom dollar that no matter how much sex she gives you, chances that you\u2019ll marry her are very slim. With you, it\u2019s clear that sex (marathon sex for that matter) in a relationship is a priority, otherwise, the girl go hear ween! Take it easy, my brother, must you empty all the juice deposited inside her by Baba God, wetin the man wey go marry her drink when he comes?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sex is not everything, my\nbrother. If you really love this girl, and you feel she\u2019s not matching your\nhigh sex drive, then you come down to match hers because I\u2019m almost certain she\nalso probably had to step up her own to meet you at three rounds. If she\u2019s done\nwell enough to go three rounds with you, then be patient with her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
DEAR DOCTOR, my name is\nFlorence and I\u2019m 17 years old. I have a boyfriend that\u2019s 23 years old but all\nhe\u2019s after is sex which I don\u2019t like because I\u2019ve done it before. He\u2019s always\nforcing me to do it. At first, I took him as a casual friend and then fell in\nlove with him, but my fear now is that he\u2019s always after sex. Please, help me\nand don\u2019t publish my number, pleeeeeass..<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dear Florence, to start with, at seventeen, you should not be talking about boyfriends and sex. At your age, you should be fully focused on your studies. You should preoccupy yourself with how you should get into the university (that\u2019s if you\u2019re not an undergraduate yet). If you must have a boyfriend, choose one that will help you grow intellectually and with whom you can develop a relationship devoid of sex. The last thing you need now is a boyfriend whose only intention is to turn you into a sex toy, or worse still, he wants to get you pregnant and turn you into a young mother at age seventeen. You shouldn\u2019t be looking for a friend who only needs you to satisfy his sexual cravings, you need friends who can make sensible and positive contributions to your life.\u00a0 <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hello, Dr. Love, my name is Regina and I\u2019m 28 years old. Currently, I\u2019m in a relationship and by November our relationship will be one year old. 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