Yeah, we know it\u2019s always fun when you take out time with your friend and regale her with all the wonderful stuffs that\u2019s been happening between you and your sweetheart. You\u2019re so excited and head over heels in love with your guy you just can\u2019t wait to tell your friends about him and hear them tell you how lucky you are that you found yourself such an amazing guy. But, it might not just end there. This could breed envy amongst your friends. Some of them would wish they were in your shoes and could give anything to be in your place, even if it means stabbing you in the back and betraying you. From experience, we have found that hundreds of women have lost their relationships and marriages just because they didn\u2019t know when to keep their mouths shut. Here are five things you should refrain from telling your friend about your man, if you do not want to get into problems with her at some point, or worse still, get into problems with your relationship or marriage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
* Don\u2019t keep telling your friend how much of a stud your man is in bed. This is perhaps one of the \u2018riskiest\u2019 subjects to discuss with your girlfriend about your man. Sure, every woman gets super excited when she finds that her new is a dynamite in bed and has proven that by taking her to sexual heights she\u2019d never been to before. Most ladies take delight in recounting such experience to their friends, but you\u2019ve got to be careful, your friend might just want to have a taste of the action too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
*Don\u2019t show off every time he buys you an expensive gift. Your guy could be loaded to the hilt and your friends guy is just a regular guy, or worse still, a broke ass, like Naija babes like to call some poor guys. Well, good for you that your guy is rich, but a word of caution, start learning to keep the stuffs he buys you to yourself cos you might just be stirring up your friend\u2019s jealousy if you continue to flaunt your man\u2019s wealth before her. She could start loathing you, and to make matters worse, she might start plotting how to get some of that money your guy is showering on you. And how would she go about that? Seduction!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
*This one is possibly the riskiest! Don\u2019t you ever go telling your friends that your tall and handsome lover\/husband has one of the most intimidating \u2018sugar stick\u2019 you\u2019ve ever seen on a man, and what\u2019s more, he really knows how to use it! Try telling this to two or three of your friends, and we can guarantee you that two out of the three friends will go behind your back to see and experience it for themselves!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
*Never go running to friends each time you and your man have had an argument or quarrel. Except where things have gotten really violent between both of you, try and solve things out between you and your man. Not everyone you share your problem with will genuinely feel sorry for you, if that\u2019s what you\u2019re looking for. Some will mock you behind your back and actually wish the worst for your marriage or relationship. And for some others, they\u2019re only waiting for that relationship to crash so they can move in to replace you. Except your friend is one that you have both come a long way together and have been through stuffs together and you\u2019re sure she\u2019s got your back, do not go running to her every time there\u2019s problem in your marriage or relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
*Do not share intimate secrets about your man with a friend. For instance, if your man had been through some rough patches in the past and had been thrown in jail for a couple of months or years before and is now starting a new phase of his life, don\u2019t go sharing such intimate stuffs with your friend, she might just use it to humiliate you the day you both get into a fight. Don\u2019t share stuffs like your partner\u2019s small penis, or his drinking or gambling problem, it might just come back to haunt you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Yeah, we know it\u2019s always fun when you take out time with your friend and regale her with all the wonderful stuffs that\u2019s been happening between you and your sweetheart.…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":18,"featured_media":140367,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_exactmetrics_skip_tracking":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_active":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_note":"","_exactmetrics_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[20287],"tags":[20942],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.citypeopleonline.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Dr-Love-1.jpg?fit=596%2C781&ssl=1","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":139993,"url":"https:\/\/www.citypeopleonline.com\/5-things-not-to-tell-your-bestie-about-your-man-no-3-is-the-most-critical\/","url_meta":{"origin":154336,"position":0},"title":"5 Things Not To Tell Your Bestie About Your Man \u2013 No. 3 Is The Most Critical","author":"Wale Lawal","date":"May 25, 2020","format":false,"excerpt":"Yeah, sure, it can be fun when you take out time with your friend and regale her with all the wonderful stuff that\u2019s been happening between you and your sweetheart. 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