One of women’s biggest challenge in life is how to know when a guy is being sincere or not with them in relationship or marriage. No matter how smart some women are when it comes to relationships with men, they still get deceived and heartbroken in the end. They don’t know when a guy is being truthful when he says, ‘I love you.’ They still cannot differentiate from the one who wants then for keeps and the one who’s only come for their body. The following are five early signals that might help you know if a guy is being sincere in the relationship or not.
*They are emotionally distant. This is usually an obvious signal. Lovers whose love is fake often keep away emotionally from their partners. They won’t let you into their personal lives or divulge important information about themselves to you. They believe that the little you know about them, the better for them.
*Always threatening to walk out of the relationship. Every relationship has it ups and downs. There are bound to be disagreements once in a while, the important thing is for you to know how to settle your issues and move on. But when your partner is always threatening to throw in the towel and walk away every single time you guys have an issue, then you should examine his feelings for you again, it might just be a fake one.
*They leave you to do everything. If you have a partner that’s not ready to make just a little sacrifice for you or simply make an effort to be supportive or caring, then there is a problem. Are you the one who’s always making calls, checking on your partner? Are you the one who’s always visiting? Are you the one who’s always concerned about your partner’s welfare? Think again, your partner’s professed affection for you might just be nothing but fake.
*Unbothered about you. Usually, in a perfect relationship, lovers are supposed to be concerned and bothered about each other’s welfare. They want to know what’s happening in the lives of their partners, seeking ways to support them in their endeavors. But in a situation when your partner’s love for you is fake, he won’t bother about such things, he just moves on with his life, bothered only about what’s happening within his space.
*Alarm bells constantly ring. Every one of us have our alarm bells inside of us. We simply do not listen to them when they go ringing inside our heads. When we are falling for guys who might bring us nothing but heartbreaks, our alarm bells go up but we ignore them. Usually, when these alarm bells go up, its to tell us to be careful of the guy standing in front of us and toasting us with smooth oratory skills. So, when next you hear your alarm bells ring, please, slowly and kindly walk away.
– WALE LAWAL