It is a common scenario, right? Every now and then you hear ladies whose bosses are male complain about their boss flirting with them or outrightly asking them out. Sometimes, things go well. Sometimes, they don’t. There are, for example, instances where the lady politely turns down her boss’s love overtures and the man takes it nicely and maturely and they both move on. But there have also been instances where things don’t quite work out like that. It’s either the lady gets sacked or she’s frustrated to a point where she has to put in her resignation. And yes, some have been even luckier. They go on to have some really blissful relationship with their boss while some have gotten married to their boss. Different strokes for different strokes, right? Whichever side of the divide you belong, here are seven obvious signs your boss wants to sleep with you.
HE SUDDENLY BEGINS TO ASK FOR PRIVATE MEETINGS WITH YOU
When this starts to happen and you can’t seem to understand the rationale for the private meeting, then something is wrong. The man obviously wants to start getting really personal with you.
HE TREATS YOU DIFFERENTLY
Once your boss begins to treat you differently from the way he treats other employees, then you can be sure something fishy is going on. If he gives you a little extra income or promotes you even though you’re fairly new in the organisation, you must shine your eyes, something else may follow soon.
YOUR BOSS FLIRTS WITH YOU
Now flirting is a huge sign of someone’s interest in you. The moment your boss starts flirting with you, then something’s coming up. Flirting is meant to build sexual tension between two people. It’s also one of the commonest ways to say to a woman, ‘I want you to be mine.’
YOUR BOSS TELLS YOU ABOUT HIS PERSONAL LIFE
This can only mean one thing, he wants you to have an intimate relationship with you. If your boss talks about personal stuff to you, especially in the area of dating and sex, then it’s clear he wants to study your reaction and see how much you’re interested in him. He wants to bring you closer to him.
YOU SPEND TIME TOGETHER OUTSIDE THE OFFICE
Okay, you could say its normal for a co-worker to take you out for lunch. But once your boss begins to frequently take you outside the office for lunch or something, or generally wants to hang out with you outside of work time, it’s a clear sign he’s interested in something more than just work.
YOU GET GIFTS
They may not be huge gifts but they’re still gifts anyway because he’s not handing out the same thing to everyone in the office. When he gives you these gifts, he singles you out as the only one deserving it. And then he tells you not to tell anyone he’s just given you a gift. Beware, it could be a Greek gift, he may still ask you for something in return.
PERSONAL CALLS AND EMAILS
Another very obvious sign. You’re home relaxing on a Sunday and your phone suddenly rings out and the caller turns out to be your boss. And he tells you he’s just calling to wish you a pleasant Sunday. And he begins to repeatedly make these calls. Be warned, he’s got something up his sleeves.