•By Marriage Coach, Pastor BISI ADEWALE
You need to know what makes men sexually fulfilled. Your husband may be sleeping with you and not be sexually fulfilled. Let me mention some things here that determine a man’s sexual fulfilment:
(1) INVITATION
Your willingness to invite him to sleep with you will make your man’s day. So, be creative about it. Use your girlish wisdom to seduce your husband to bed regularly; he will be willing to fall into your temptation.
(2) FREQUENCY
Don’t make a calendar for sex in your marriage. Increase the frequency, let it happen regularly. The more you do it, the more fulfilled he will be. An average man wants sex two to three times a week. Your husband’s demand is not strange, please satisfy him.
(3) CREATIVITY
Be creative and don’t lie down like a log of wood. Move your body, raise your legs, do different styles, do it in different venues, you are in order.
(4) COOPERATION
Your cooperation with him in the bedroom is also a key to your husband’s fulfilment. Cooperate with him, and be willing.
(5) YOUR INVOLVEMENT
Be involved in all stages of sex. Be active in foreplay, be active during thrusting, hold him and communicate during ejaculation and orgasm. Hold him after ejaculation, don’t just jump into the bathroom, give him room for after the show.
(6) ACTIVITIES
During foreplay, touch every part of his body. Scratch his back, suck his nipples, touch his thigh, touch his penis and play with it generously.
(7) SURRENDER
Don’t struggle with him about sex, be surrendered totally. Be willing to go the extra mile with him
(8) RESPONSE
Your response during foreplay, thrusting and orgasm is very important. Respond wildly, and let him know that he is satisfying you. This makes a man so happy even more than ejaculation. Look at his face, thank him, hold him, whisper to his ear, call him by name, praise him, tell him to dig more. He will feel fulfilled.
Bisi Adewale is a family and relationship expert; author of Secret of Irresistible Wife and more than 100 other books on marriage and family life. You can follow him on Instagram and Twitter @bisiadewale or reach him on askbisiadewale@gmail.com , 08068312004, and blogs daily on www.bisiadewale.com
