Mr. Wale, I am a twenty seven year old lady dating a guy I hope to get married to in the next few months. We love each other very much and sincerely, I couldn’t have asked for a better man. But there’s a problem. Whenever I go visit him in Ibadan where he works, I always tremble inside me, especially when its night time and we have to go to bed. The moment its time for the inevitable (love making) I begin to sweat. You see, Mr. Wale, my guy’s dick is huge and he bruises me each time we love. Most times, I don’t enjoy making love to him but I pretend to just so that I don’t hurt his feelings. Please, what do you advise I do about this because I’m worried it might become such a big problem when we get married. Please, conceal my number. ————Yetunde, Lagos.
Hmm…this one is serious o. My dear, it is indeed different strokes for different folks. I do know that a lot of women complain about partners who have what they consider as small penis. In fact, this category of women would more than likely throw a party if they woke up one morning (or is it night?) and find that your partner’s dick size had grown from its original pint size to a super stud size. But here you are, complaining that your partner’s too big for you. Anyway, I do not see that as a problem. As it is, you can’t really do anything about your partner’s ‘size’, but you can definitely do something about accommodating his size. First step is to let him know that his size is a problem to you, although you do appreciate the fact he’s well endowed. Then you make him understand how important it is for you that he engages in prolonged foreplay with you before penetration, that way, you would be sufficiently lubricated down there and too fired up for him to care about the size that’s coming at you. If you find that natural lubrication isn’t sufficient for you, you might get some regular body cream close by. Let him also know the parts of your body that turn you on and get him to work overtime on those parts. If he gets it right and he does his business well, you will be the one begging him to and get you and the size of his dick won’t matter to you anymore. It will be the last thing on your mind. Soon, you might even begin to find more pleasure with his ‘King Kong’ size. Try this and let me know if it works for you. Best of luck.
Doctor Love, can you help me? I have a lady in my life whom I love so much, but the problem I’m having with the relationship is her ex! The guy simply will not let her be. He finds every reason to call her, to see her and even keeps in touch with my woman’s siblings and yet she says its over between them! What do I do, Wale, this situation is driving me crazy.
My brother, I can understand your fears. Everyone feels this way whenever an ex flame that should’ve been dead and buried suddenly makes a return and starts throwing spanners into the works for you. It can be really frustrating. But I’d like to think that it all boils down to the woman involved. If you trust her and she has her head screwed on tight to know that she’d be asking for trouble if she gives her ex too many liberties, then there’s nothing to worry about. It won’t be totally out of order though if you could also speak with your woman and let her know how uncomfortable with the situation, but be careful not to begin to show traits of a man that’s feeling terribly insecure. Most women don’t like that.. It might seem amusing and pleasing to them at first when they realize you actually love them enough to feel jealous over their closeness with a male friend. But when it begins to get out of hand, they start showing irritation. Once you’re certain to a large extent, all you need to do is talk about it and let her know how you feel.
Dear Wale, I have a boyfriend whom I have dated for two years now. We visit each other once in a while. We haven’t had sex and the highest money he’s ever given to me iosN1000. He is rich but he doesn’t take care of me, now he is talking about marriage, what do you think I should do? Please, help me, my name is Angel, and please conceal my number…
My dear Angel, this is a rather tricky situation you are in at the moment. The first thing that’s going through my mind after going through your mail is, is this guy for real? Somebody who hasn’t attempted to show you how special you are to him via material or monetary gifts once in a while despite that he’s rich like you said, what’s the guarantee that he is being sincere? Could this be a ploy for him to get in between your legs? Could this be his own way of getting you to let down your guard? Or could it be that he’s been testing your sincerity all this while, trying to be sure if you want him for his money or if your love is real? It is difficult to tell what’s going on in his mind right now. The only way to find out is for you not to get over excited right now and jump right into his arms. You must take your time to study him some more. You must watch his every move. Ask him questions. Ask him why he treated you like didn’t mean much to him all this time and now he’s suddenly asking for your hand in marriage? Ask him to tell you what has changed about you or about him. You can call me so we can talk some more. I need to get some more back ground information about your relationship. But for now, do not get carried away, take your time to study him and every move he makes. If he keeps bringing up the issue of marriage, tell him to give you just a few weeks to think about it.