There is a very worrisome trend right now amongst the younger generation of ladies. And it’s getting even worse by the day. Some section of the society is keeping mute about this frightening pattern while others, too alarmed to keep quiet, are speaking out and drawing the society’s attention to the not so pleasant development. The trend we are talkimng about is the growing desire of our single ladies, particularly the pretty rich ones, to remain unmarried for the rest of their days. This is a situation that has caused lots of rifts between parents and these “single-for-life’ ladies. In some cases, it has caused some of the old folks to suffer depression as they couldn’t deal with the shame and stigma that the refusal of their beloved daughter to get married has brought upon them. In this part of the world, there is always huge pressure is put on young ladies to find a husband and same mneasure of pressure on the parents to ensure that their daughters leave their home for her husband’s house once she is of marriageable age. Back then, the young girl begins to look out for a suitor and prospective husband till she finally finds one and the family, including her immediate community, celebrate with her. But not any more. That was then. Things are starting to take a turn for the worse now…
Why would ladies now choose to remain single for the rest of their days? Why would a lady throw away the opportunity to get married to a man that is doing everything he possibly can to win her heart and make her the mother of her children? Why are more and moe ladies, especially the ones with swelling bank accounts, insisting they do not want to live under the same roof with a man? City People investigations have produced quite a startling revelation.
Before now, many used to think this particular trend was only popular amongst celebrities, entertainment personalities and the like, but investigations have revealed it is not so. A lot of these ladies atre not even in the spotlight, but for reasons many have found outrageous, they have chosen to be without a husband. As far as they are concerned, living under the same roof with a man is nothing but a huge burden to them. They feel that because they are making money and are financially independent, they do not need to depend on any man for their financial needs. Many of these ladies are accomplished career women who have done well for themselves. Some are top Chief Executive Officers of multinational companies, while a large chunk are into business and trading and they are making huge returns on their invetments. But there are some who are not into any of the aforementioned. They are the super fly girls. They are beautiful, gorgeous women who invest a large chunk of money on their body, buying expensive body creams and enhancing their body parts through surgeries just to attract big money men who can afford to pay for their luxurious lifestyles.
For this group of ladies, marriage is a capital NO! They cannot afford to live by the whims and caprices of any man. They crave for thei own independence. They want to want to go out anytime they want and return to the house anytime they choose, no matter how late in the day it is. In many cases, they want to be away for days or even weeks, frolicking with men that can pay their bills. They need these millionaire sugar daddies to pay for the expensive apartments they live in, maintain and change their exotic cars and pick the bills for their overseas trips. And they often service two or more of these men at the same time so they don’t load them with bills. After a while, they terminate their ‘contracts’ with them and move on to the next man waiting in line to have a taste of what they have got in between their legs. They simply cannot stand being controlled by a man or being dictated to. They want to be their own boss.
For the career women, it’s more or less the same scenario. Many of these single women who have done well for themselves climbing up the corporate ladder and sitting atop the board of some flourishing blue chip companies decide to stay single because very few men will be able to accommodate them and their firecely independent posture. Many of them are richer than their prospective husbands. They own several bank accounts with eye popping digits. They travel round the globe with company chairmen, directors and even ministers on supposed official assignments. For days on end, they are away from home. And when they return, tired and physically drained from whatever it was they went to do, all they want to do is sleep and get a good rest. The last thing they want is to lie down on the bed only for Mr. Husband to climb ontop of them asking for sex. They cannot afford that. They want to be in a position where they will call their man to come over for sex whenever they want one. And not the other way round.
The case is no different with actresses and femle showbiz personalities. They leave home for days, sometimes weeks, shooting movies or go on tour. When they return home, they want to rest. But a lot of times, before they return home, there may have been stories, real or fabricated, about their escapades with men while on location. For those of them that are mnarried, it’s usually war in the house. The man wants to know everything she did while she was away. Who she spoke with, who she hugged, who she drank with and who was she with in a room, he wants to know everything. Most importantly, he wants to know if she had sex with anybody while away! This often degenerates into a full scale fight and before you know it, the marriage starts to crumble like a pack of badly arranged cards. This is why many of those that were initially married no longer want to give it a shot.
There is also the group of ladies that actually desire to become mothers. They want to have a child or two they can call their own. But they do not want to be married to be a mother. So, what do they do? They look for men, mostly men who are already married, and have an agreement with them. They tell them, ‘if I get pregnant in the course of our relationship, I keep the pregnancy and you accept paternity of the child but you may decide to keep it away from your family.’ Some don’t even have this conversation with their lovers, they know what they are looking for, so they encourage their partners to have sex with them without condom and hope it results into pregnancy. They undestand how important it is for them to have a child of their own, what they do not want to have is a husband that will lord over them.
These super rich single ladies are not the type of women any man can approach for a relationship. They live in expensive mansions, they drive state of the art automobiles, wear designer clothes, have their own domestic staff, take lesisure trips abroad, put their kids in expensive schools, etc. Your account has to be in staggering digits to be able to carry the load of these ladies. They are big babes, and dating a big babe comes with a lot of responsibilities. Once any of their lovers begin to display signs of disinterest in the relationship, they decide what to do to him. Depending on how deep his pocket is, if it is fairly deep, they might strive to hold onto him by spoiling him with romance and attention, but if they feel he has nothing more to offer, they drop him quickly like some piece of trash the cat dragged in. And before he knows what hit him, she is already flaunting her catch in his face, splashing their lovey dovey pictures on her social media handles. They are strictly for the money. No time for love, no desire for marriage. They don’t joke with their freedom. For these ladies, no man is good enough to take their freedom away from them. They would rather remain single and unmarried and still have their freedom to themselves than lose it just for the sake of marriage! It’s a ‘no deal for them.
-WALE LAWAL
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