Yeah, sure, it can be fun when you take out time with your friend and regale her with all the wonderful stuff that’s been happening between you and your sweetheart. You’re so excited and head over heels in love with your guy you just can’t wait to tell your friends about him and hear them tell you how lucky you are that you found yourself such an amazing guy. But, be careful, it might not just end there. Flaunting your guy or running commentaries about how much of a fantastic lover he’s been might get you into trouble. Chances are that some of your friends might begin to wish they were in your shoes and could give anything to be in your place, even if it means stabbing you in the back. Here are five things you should refrain from telling your friends about your man, if you do not want to get into problems with her at some point, or worse still, get into problems with your relationship or marriage.
(1) DON’T KEEP TELLING YOUR FRIEND HOW MUCH OF A STUD YOUR MAN IS IN BED
This is perhaps one of the ‘riskiest’ subjects to discuss with your girlfriend about your man. Sure, every woman gets super excited when she finds that her new lover is a dynamite in bed and has proven that by taking her to sexual heights she’d never been to before. Most ladies take delight in recounting such experience to their friends, but you’ve got to be careful, your friend might just want to have a taste of the action too.
(2) DON’T SHOW OFF EVERY TIME HE BUYS YOU AN EXPENSIVE GIFT.
Your guy could be loaded to the hilt and your friend’s guy is just a regular guy, or worse still, a broke ass, like Naija babes like to call some poor guys. Well, good for you that your guy is rich, but a word of caution, start learning to keep the stuff he buys you to yourself cos you might just be stirring up your friend’s jealousy if you continue to flaunt your man’s wealth before her. She could start loathing you, and to make matters worse, she might start plotting how to get some of that money your guy is showering on you. And how would she go about that? Seduction!
(3)THIS ONE IS POSSIBLY THE RISKIEST!
Don’t you ever go telling your friends that your tall and handsome lover/husband has one of the most intimidating ‘sugar sticks’ you’ve ever seen on a man? And what’s more, he really knows how to use it! Try telling this to two or three of your friends, and I can guarantee you that two out of the three friends will go behind your back to see and experience it for themselves!
(4) NEVER GO RUNNING TO FRIENDS EACH TIME YOU AND YOUR MAN HAVE HAD AN ARGUMENT OR QUARREL
Except where things have gotten really violent between both of you, try and solve things out between you and your man. Not everyone you share your problem with will genuinely feel sorry for you if that’s what you’re looking for. Some will mock you behind your back and actually wish the worst for your marriage or relationship. And for some others, they’re only waiting for that relationship to crash so they can move in to replace you. Except your friend is one that you have both come a long way together and have been through stuff together and you’re sure she’s got your back, do not go running to her every time there’s a problem in your marriage or relationship.
(5) DO NOT SHARE INTIMATE SECRETS ABOUT YOUR MAN WITH A FRIEND
For instance, if your man had been through some pretty rough patches in the past and had been thrown in jail once years ago and is now starting a new phase of his life, don’t go sharing such intimate stuff with your friend, she might just use it to humiliate you the day you both get into a fight. Don’t share stuff like your partner’s small penis, or his drinking or gambling problem, it might just come back to haunt you.