DEAR MR. WALE, I have been looking for whom to share this problem with but found that the only one I can discuss this with is you. The only other person I mentioned this to was my close friend, but I was careful enough not to go into details with him because he can be flippant at times. Doctor Love, the problem I have is my wife’s younger sister. She is too damn hot! She is too beautiful and sexy at the same time. She is just three years younger than my wife. My wife is twenty –eight. She moved in with us just a couple of months ago. She is serving here in Lagos while I resigned from my job two months ago and trying to secure a better job. My wife is a banker. Now, what this means is that, most times, I am often home with Nana, my wife’s sister. And we get along well together. If you didn’t know, you would she was my girlfriend or sister when you see us playing together. But the truth is, I fear I may have fallen in love with the babe. I see her a lot in her nighties in the house and steal glances at her full round boobs and thick nipples. I’m sorry I don’t want to get raw here but the girl is driving me crazy. And I think she knows what she is doing to me. Most times, she will roll her arse around the house and look back to see if I’m staring at her behind and with a sexy smile on her face. Look, sir, I am not a saint, I have cheated on my wife a couple of times but never with somebody close to her. Not even her friends. I don’t want to touch this girl but this thing in between my legs keeps crying out for her. Even when I make up my mind I will avoid her in the house, I still end up looking forward to seeing her. I swear, the girl is driving me crazy. She knows I want to sleep with her but she doesn’t seem to mind. She once told her sister that if I hadn’t gone for her, she would’ve gone for me cos I met both of them at a party years ago and ended up with the sister who is equally beautiful too. Please, tell me, sir, what do I do?
-Big Ben from Lagos.
MY DEAR BIG BEN, I hail o! This your name sounds like you’re a Warri guy. And it also sounds like the name of one baaaaaad boy that’s just coming back home small small. Okay, so let’s look at the situation all over again. You have this cute and sexy sister-im-law that’s driving you crazy, right? So, she has the hottest female body you have ever seen. That thing in between your legs wants to sleep with her, but your brain tells you its wrong and now you don’t know what to do, abi? The answer is simple- go out there and look for job! It’s that simple. To avoid being in the house all alone with your super sexy sister–in-law, go out every morning, look for job everywhere you possibly can and stay out till late in the day when your wife will be heading back home from work. That way, gradually, you will start getting her out of your mind and you start losing interest in her. Bros, you get big problem o, and I know your name is Big Ben, but that does not mean you should go around looking for big problems that you cannot deal with? What do you imagine would happen should your wife find out you’re even toying with the idea of sleeping with her sister, not to talk of catching you in bed with her? Can you just imagine for a moment the mess you will create in the family? Be a man, bro, and stop fooling around. Get your sister-in-law out of your head, she is a Red Zone, a no-go area for you, is that understood? Already you have admitted cheating on your wife a few times already, is that not bad enough for you? Trust me, Big Ben, that girl is bad news, stay away from her. A word, they say, is enough for the wise!
MY MAN’S EXWON’T LEAVE HIM ALONE FOR ME!
DOCTOR LOVE, please, reply me urgently. I have been dating my man for three years now but his ex-girlfriend still wants him back. Although he says nothing wil make him go back to her, I am not comfortable with the way they have been communicating on the phone, its getting too much for my comfort! Wale, I’m not happy, please, what should I do? My name is Peace from Port-Harcourt…..07031977…..
DEAR PEACE, I can understand your fears. This is an issue that, often times, rears its head between couples. I can only ask you to calm down and take things easy. If your man says he does not want to take his ex back, then you must believe him. You could also let him know your fears with his ex’s renewed interest in you. But do not push it too much, else he’ll begin to see you as a nag. Three years is enough time for you to know the kind of man you’re dating. If you know him well enough, you should be able to tell if he’s being sincere with you when he said there’s nothing going on between them. My advice is, until he proves otherwise, take your mind off the issue and concentrate on making your relationship with him even stronger.
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