Dear doctor Love, I have a really serious problem that has been bothering me for some time now. It’s about my fiance. She is 27 years old while I am 35 years. We met early this year and just within a few months dating without sexual intercourse, I proposed to her and she agreed to marry me. I truly and deeply love this girl. But I only just discovered something that has become a huge source of concern for me. My fiancé and I started getting sexually intimate last month. First time we made love, I noticed how easily I penetrated her and she took the whole of my rod very easily. And believe me, I am not exactly small down there o. At first, I thought maybe its because she was excited and had been waiting for that moment for months and so she was extremely wet for me. But we have had sex three more times now and its been same experience. I didn’t really enjoy the experience. I was just dangling inside her. What do I do? Will I enjoy my marriage and sex life with her if I go ahead to marry her? Is it that she had been sexually reckless with men, that’s why she is so wide? Please conceal my name and number, I beg you, sir…
MY BROTHER, you didn’t even put your own name. Was it deliberate or you just forgot to do so? First and foremost, I need you to drop that notion in your head that your fiancé had probably been sleeping around and keeping multiple boyfriends before you met her. Though I am not a medical expert in that regard, but I have heard medical experts who have said it does not necessarily happen that way in most cases. With your fiancé, it may just be the way her body is. And there is a treatment for it. If you love her truly, you can discuss this with her and make her understand that for both of you to enjoy a rich sex life, you must seek a solution in form of treatment to address the condition. All you need to do is to go talk to the experts. Please, don’t even begin to think of dumping your fiancé on the basis of her vaginal condition, it does not make sense at all. There is a lot more about her that’s more valuable to you than her vaginal condition, which as I said, is treatable. Talk to your woman, together both of you can find a solution to her problem by seeking medical help. Goods luck.
GOOD day, Mr. Wale, I don’t want to disclose my name in this text because of some personal reasons. I have been in a relationship with a guy for over four years now and he never gives me the right to come to his place without prior notice of the day and time. The seriousness of it is that he’s a liar, a cheat and he’s never truthful to me, which I know myself. There was a day I saw in his phone a lady’s number he saved as ‘Baby Joy” whereas my name is saved in Lisa name as just my name. Mr. Wale, I love him but I have lost my faith in him. Tell me, what do I do?
ARE YOU KIDDING ME? Are you still asking me to tell you what you should do? For God’s sake, you girls just never cease to amaze me. A guy treats you like some junk the cat dragged in, tramples all over your dignity as a woman and you still say you don’t know what do? If you were my kid sister, I would not hesitate to spank you for this. How could you be so naive? You say a guy is a liar and a cheat and you could never go to his uninvited, yet it didn’t occur to you to drop him like bad habit?? I also ask this question, what is it with girls and bad boys? Why are you always stuck in love with the boys that bring you nothing but bad news? Its pretty obvious this guy doesn’t give a hoot about you, neither does he care about your feelings, so why would you claim you love him? You want my candid advice? Delete him from your memory, he doesn’t deserve the smallest space in it!
Dear doctor Love, please, I beg you in God’s name, keep this very confidential. Do not publish my number for any reason. My problem is a very simple one- I’m in love with my husband’s friend! My husband and I have been married for close to two years now. The marriage is blessed with a baby girl whom we both love so much. We have our own little issues but we always find a way to sort things out. In all, the marriage is okay. But problem started for me when a friend of my husband came over to visit. I had never met him before. He had been stationed in Port-Harcourt until work brought him to Lagos. See, I don’t know which part of him I love the most. He is not too tall but very cute looking. Whenever he looks at me with his sexy eyes, I melt inside of me. But I think the part about him that I love the most is that he is very intelligent and respectful. Unlike my husband who shows little regard for women, Jide (that’s his name) respects women and he often shows it in the way he talks to me when he’s around. And he’s also not a flirt like my husband. Whenever my husband talks rudely to me in his presence, he speaks candidly to him and scolds him. He tells him to accord me some respect especially when there’s a third party in the house. He is such a perfect gentleman. The thing is that Jide doesn’t even know I’ve fallen madly in love with. There is no day I don’t look him up on his Instagram page to check out his handsome face, though I don’t leave messages. Wale, what do I do, this feeling is driving me crazy!
Crazy ko, insane ni! Madam, are you okay at all? You had better ‘Calm down’ like that little boy in the video advised. Get a hold of yourself and of your emotions, abeg. Are you listening to yourself at all? You are in love with your husband’s friend and you want my advice! So, what do you expect me to tell you now, that you should cheat on your husband and sleep with the guy? See, the only advice I will give you, and a very candid one at that, is this; find your way to Berger, get on that express that leads to Ibadan and ask people to direct you to a place called MFM Prayer City. When you get there, just submit yourself to any of the workers you meet and tell them you need deliverance fast. If they want to remind you that all religious activities have been suspended because of Covod-19, tell them exactly what you’ve told me, I’m sure they will drag you straight to the deliverance ground. I won’t be surprised if they put a call through to Dr. Olukoya for you, that there’s a woman with them who is under a spell and is bent on destroying her marriage with her own hands! And you call what you’re feeling love? It is pure madness, nothing more, nothing less! See, you had better purge yourself of that fatal lust growing inside of you before it gets you into a mess you will regret for life.